“I hate myself. I’ve been in pain for years and although I usually bounce back in the summer, this time I’m destroyed. My family and I are on different paths, so I don’t burden them with my problems. I am a very successful executive of a mega-billion dollar business, and that’s the end of my accomplishments. Please pray for me? I can’t do this any longer.” ~David R.
Dear David R.,
I feel the extreme loneliness that you’re battling. I know that it took a lot of disconnected hard work to get to the top. Congratulations! I’d like for you to consider this, the skills that got you to this present level of success, will not get you towards your next level.
That being said, go learn the skills that will profit your social skills. Take a dance class, a spiritual retreat, volunteer or mentor a downline and while your at it create an elite like minded group, where gatherings are not only uplifting socially, but the attendees are all equally as intriguing as yourself.
Get excited again about meeting people! Pursue your new purpose with a heart of joy. I’m sure you will meet lots of high achievers that will like to be invited to your exclusive club.
Love,
Gina
The tiny seed knew that in order to grow it needed to be dropped in dirt, covered in darkness and struggle to reach the light. ~Sandra Kring
Repeat after me…
Today is the last day that I will feel lonely.
When I’m lonely or feeling self compassion deficient. I will remember these perspectives…
My scars are representatives of my strength
Pain has a role in my growth journey
Overthinking or complaining complicates me
EVERYTHING in life is temporary
Moving forward has struggles
The best thing I can do is just keep going
I AM Unstoppable. I AM Inimitable. I AM Unforgettable.